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Body Safe Sex Toys Basics - 101 Guide to Pleasure Product Materials

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I would like to say first that a lot of bloggers have written posts about which toys are body safe. I am not the first and I won't be the last. I have learnt a lot from bloggers such as Epiphora and Dangerous Lilly and don't want to step on any toes here. Saying that, this will be brief and I want to make sure it's as accessible to as many people as possible on this particular site. You may ask why we need to think or talk about this. Wouldn't anything be safe that you put into yourself or...

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Finding the Right Lube for You

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Whether you’re masturbating or playing with a partner, lube is a quick, easy way to make things slick in a hurry. It reduces friction and can even prevent tiny tears in tissue that could lead to infections.

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How To Get Creative With Dildos

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Two of the most recurring comments I get from friends who have less dildos than me are ‘why do you have so many?’ and ‘what do you do with them all?’ When I’ve finished answering their questions a common response is ‘wow! I never knew you could do so much with a dildo!’ If you’ve ever wondered if you’re missing out on dildo fun then do not despair. This blog post is for you. ‘Surely You Don’t Mean Me?’ I absolutely do! Dildos do not judge based on gender or sexuality and neither should you. Whether you are penis enabled...

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Sex Toys for Every Body

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There was a time, not so very long ago, when most sex toys intimidated me. That may come as a surprise, seeing as I now review and promote toys on my blog and have amassed a fairly significant and ever-growing collection. It wasn’t that I was embarrassed, it wasn’t that I thought they were too kinky, the issue was function. I was sure that I wouldn’t be able to use most toys. Why, you ask? Because I’m fat. Media, advertising and the cult of consumerism in general are very divisive spaces to navigate when you are anything other than the...

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Bullet Vibrators 101 - Producing Power In A Super Small Size

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What are bullet vibrators?
Bullet vibrators are small, external vibrators. Most bullet vibrators have a traditional “bullet” shape with a pointed tip. Some have rounded ends whereas others are flat and angled like a lipstick.

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